Bleaching of America
There is a concerted effort to change the painted landscape of America
Force out all the shades of color
And make the land monochromatic white.
But what made America great is the beautiful hues of the rainbow
That stretch from shore to shore.
So let’s stop the bleaching of America.
People say they envy me,
They admire my ability to fulfill many roles,
The consummate juggler of time, people, and events.
What they don’t understand is that my perpetual motion
Stems from a deep seated fear, irrational though it may be,
Which makes my mind reach for new goals,
Create new projects, new places to go
Before the last ones are close to completion.
When my mother, who I reflect,
Slowed down and gave up the struggle,
And I fear that I will do the same.
All Things Must End
Even though I loved you
And hurt deeply because you turned your back on me.
Still shed tears of loneliness
And wear an expression of dejection,
Where a once elated smile was ejected out,
“Cause you said there’s someone new,
Don’t think that I’m staying here on the ground,
Wasting my life over
Today feeling sad.
Won’t give a damn.
When I look in the mirror, I see her face.
And I swore I’d never be like her, never say what she said,
Never do what she did.
As I recall how she gave me advice,
That I always listened to but rarely followed,
Never quite understanding her emotions
From great anguish and anger,
To extreme pride and joy, her sacrifice and selflessness,
All connected to her children.
Even her marriage took a back seat for the sake of those same children.
And I said I’d never be like her,
Never say what she said, never do what she did.
What emptiness there is seeing her face in that mirror,
Even though in headstrong youth we fought over everything,
(In later years, she never remembered those fights
And said we always got along),
She became my best friend, my confidant, my therapist
Greatest fan and supporter.
And I said I’d never be like her,
Never say what she said,
Never do what she did.
What I see in that mirror, so others too see,
People who knew her stop me sometimes and marvel at the resemblance,
Say I stay busy like her,
Take care of my children, just like her.
Brothers and sisters call me so that
I can listen and give advice,
That they always hear, but seldom follow.
That mirror knows that I am just like her.
I say just what she said, I do just what she did,
I am her all wrapped up in me.
And it sees the joy in her memory,
And it sees the pain in her absence,
And it sees the fact that she has never really left.
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determinants of their use of formal long-term care
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group with the frail elderly population. Groupwork. 10(2),
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(Doctoral dissertation, University of Pennsylvania, 1996).